Welcome back to my blog. When it comes to relationships,we all want to keep the “butterfly in the tummy” feeling forever. But after a year or two, this feeling disappears and normacy takes room. Here are a few tips to help keep the relationship fires burning.
1. Bring something to the table besides the damn food! – Cookie Lyon
Have your own goals, ideas, hobbies and career plans. Relationships work best when the two of you are blending together your lives rather than you depending on your partners ideas and goals. Don’t take this out of context, I know that in a relationship there has to be a gray area where you will share ideas and life goals, that should not stop you from having your own dream and goals. This will inspire your partner to get out of their comfort zone and support one another.
2. Communcating the right way will spice up your relationship:
Relationship communication involves talking, listening, laughing and arguing. Keep the communication lines open, let your partner speak out their emotions and beliefs. Allow for your partner to air out any differences that may occur. In turn, talk to your partner when the need arises.
A note to the brothers: Listening without responding will save you alot of trouble (thank me later)!
3. Keep it sexy!
First things first, keep yourself healthy and fit, this will be a good boost your feel good factors and being sexy will come naturally to you.
Date nights are not to be taken for granted, no matter how long you have been in a relationship. While you are getting ready for the date, pick out sexy outfit (all men are visual human beings, so keep at it).